Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Dating and Marriage Choices in Relation to Partner Masculinity,

Femininity, Commitment, Attractiveness and Income

 

Daniel Arkkelin, Brian Ostrum & Gina Hoover

Valparaiso University

 

Paper Presented at the Annual Meeting of the Midwestern Psychological Association

Chicago, 2004

 

 

Abstract

 

Homosexual/bisexual dating and marriage choices were influenced more by femininity, masculinity and commitment than by attractiveness or income. Contrary to stereotypes, participants preferred high-commitment over low-commitment partners, even when the low-commitment partners were more attractive and had higher incomes. Participants preferred androgynous partners the most, and preferred feminine-typed partners over masculine-typed partners, especially for marriage choices.

Introduction

 

n       Previous Research

 

n        Heterosexual vs. Homosexual Relationships

 

n   Stereotypes about promiscuity and lower quality of gay/lesbian relationships (Testa, Kinder & Ironson, 1987)

 

n   Recent research suggests more commonalities than differences between heterosexual and homosexual relationships (Kurdek, 2000; Peplau & Spalding, 2000)

 

n       Present Study

 

n        Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Partner Choices

 

n   Compared effects of Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic factors

 

n    Attractiveness & income (extrinsic qualities)
n    Personality & commitment (intrinsic qualities)

 

n   Compared the effects of the above factors on type of choice

 

n    Dating Partner
n    Marriage Partner

 

Method

 

n        Thirty-two profiles of hypothetical target persons (TP) were constructed representing a factorial combination of low/high scores on:

 

n         Masculine Traits

n         Feminine Traits

n         Commitment Level

n         Physical Attractiveness

n         Income Level

 

n        Each profile listed a different pattern of scores ranging from 0 to 100

 

n         Masculinity/Femininity: Low (scores < 20);  High (scores > 80)

n         Commitment: Low (scores < 20);  High (> 80)

n         Income: Low (scores < $20k/year); High (scores > $80k/year)

n         Attractiveness: “Average” (scores near 50); “Good-looking” (scores > 80)

 

n        Likert scales below each profile measured likelihood of selecting TP as a partner (1: Not at all likely; 7: Extremely likely)

 


Sample Profile

 


1            2          3          4          5          6          7

      Not at all                                                             Extremely           

                                                        Likely                                                                   Likely

 

Procedure

 

n        The 32 profiles were converted to a web form using Birnbaum’s FactorWiz < http://psych.fullerton.edu/mbirnbaum/programs/factorWiz.htm >, and the form was posted on various sites on the internet

 

n        Participants (P) indicating that they were gay, lesbian or bisexual (33 men, 73 women) were directed to the web form

 

n         P’s assumed each profile described a member of the same sex

n         P’s were assigned to one of the two TP evaluation conditions:

n   Dating Partner

n   Marriage Partner

n         P’s formed impressions of each TP as either a potential dating or marriage partner

n         P’s indicated how likely they would be to select each TP as a partner by clicking a radio box on the 7-point Likert scales

 

n        Experimental Design

 

n         2 (Target Type) x 2 (Femininity) x 2 (Masculinity) x 2 (Commitment) x 2 (Attractiveness) x 2 (Income) Mixed Model ANOVA

n         Between-groups Factor: Target Type

n         Within-groups Factors: Femininity, Masculinity, Commitment, Attractiveness & Income

 

Results

 

Table 1. Summary of Significant Effects

Effect

Fa

Eta2

Mlow

Mhigh

Femininity

251.08

0.71

2.48

4.14

Commitment

161.06

0.61

2.64

3.98

Masculinity

120.85

0.54

2.80

3.82

Income

68.70

0.40

3.07

3.55

Attractiveness

52.46

0.34

3.04

3.57

Commitment x Income

27.78

0.21

 

 

Maculinity x Femininity

21.56

0.17

 

 

Commitment x Attractiveness

11.37

0.10

 

 

aAll df = 1,104 & all p < .001

 

n         Main effects indicated that P's were more likely to choose TP’s scoring high on femininity, commitment, masculinity, income  and physical attractiveness than TP's low on these qualities

n         Partial Eta2 values indicated that femininity, commitment and masculinity were more important determinants of choices than were attractiveness and income

 

A Masculinity x Femininity interaction (see Figure 1) indicated that androgynous partners were most preferred and undifferentiated partners were least preferred. Further, P's preferred feminine-typed partners over masculine-typed partners, indicating that high femininity was overrode high masculinity in partner choices.

 

 

A Commitment x Income interaction (see Figure 2) indicated that high-commitment/high-income partners were most preferred, and low-commitment/low-income partners were least preferred. More interestingly, P's preferred high-commitment/low-income partners over low-commitment/high-income partners. This suggests that high commitment overrode high income in partner choices.

 

 

 

The Commitment x Attractiveness interaction (See Figure 3) indicated that high-commitment/high-attractivness partners were most preferred, and low-commitment/average-attractiveness partners were least preferred. Once again it can be seen that commitment overrode attractiveness, in that P's preferred high-commitment/average-looking partners over low-commitment/good-looking partners.

 

 

 

Conclusions

 

n        Attractiveness and income influenced partner choice, but neither was as important as personality or commitment.

 

n         Thus, these gay, lesbian and bisexual respondents placed much greater value on intrinsic qualities of potential partners (personality and commitment) than on extrinsic qualities (attractiveness and income).

 

n         Contrary to stereotypes, participants preferred high-commitment over low-commitment partners, even when the low-commitment partners were more attractive and had higher incomes.

 

n        Heterosexuals and homosexuals appear to be more alike than different in the qualities emphasized in partner choices.

 

n         The above results replicate those obtained from a heterosexual sample (Hoover & Arkkelin, 2002)

 

n         These results corroborate research suggesting commonalities in homosexual and heterosexual relationships (Peplau & Spalding, 2000; Kurdek, 2000).

 

References

 

Hoover, G. & Arkkelin, D. (2002). Can’t Buy Me Love: Effects of Masculinity, Femininity, Commitment, Attractiveness, and Income on Friendship, Dating, and Marriage Choices of Men and Women. Paper presented at the Annual Meeting of the Midwestern Psychological Association, Chicago.

 

Kurdek, L. A. (2000). Attractions and constraints as determinants of relationship commitment: Longitudinal evidence from gay, lesbian and heterosexual couples. Personal Relationships, 7, 245-262.

 

Peplau, L. A. & Spalding, L. R. (2000). The close relationships of lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals. In C. Hendrick & S. S. Hendrick (Eds.), Close relationships: A sourcebook Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage.

 

Testa, R. J., Kinder, B. N., & Ironson, G. (1987). Heterosexual bias in the perception of loving relationships of gay males and lesbians. Journal of Sex Research, 23, 163-172.