Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Dating and Marriage
Choices in Relation to Partner Masculinity,
Femininity,
Commitment, Attractiveness and Income
Daniel Arkkelin, Brian Ostrum & Gina Hoover
Valparaiso University
Paper Presented at the
Annual Meeting of the Midwestern Psychological Association
Chicago, 2004
Abstract
Homosexual/bisexual dating and marriage choices were
influenced more by femininity, masculinity and commitment than by
attractiveness or income. Contrary to stereotypes, participants preferred
high-commitment over low-commitment partners, even when the low-commitment
partners were more attractive and had higher incomes. Participants preferred
androgynous partners the most, and preferred feminine-typed partners over masculine-typed
partners, especially for marriage choices.
Introduction
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Previous Research
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Heterosexual
vs. Homosexual Relationships
n Stereotypes about
promiscuity and lower quality of gay/lesbian relationships (Testa, Kinder &
Ironson, 1987)
n Recent research suggests
more commonalities than differences between heterosexual and homosexual
relationships (Kurdek, 2000; Peplau & Spalding, 2000)
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Present Study
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Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual
Partner Choices
n Compared effects of
Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic factors
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Attractiveness & income (extrinsic
qualities)
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Personality & commitment (intrinsic
qualities)
n Compared the effects of the
above factors on type of choice
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Dating Partner
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Marriage Partner
Method
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Thirty-two
profiles of hypothetical target persons (TP) were constructed representing a
factorial combination of low/high scores on:
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Masculine Traits
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Feminine Traits
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Commitment Level
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Physical Attractiveness
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Income Level
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Each
profile listed a different pattern of scores ranging from 0 to 100
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Masculinity/Femininity: Low (scores < 20); High (scores > 80)
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Commitment: Low (scores < 20); High (> 80)
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Income: Low (scores < $20k/year); High (scores >
$80k/year)
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Attractiveness: “Average” (scores near 50); “Good-looking”
(scores > 80)
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Likert
scales below each profile measured likelihood of selecting TP as a partner (1:
Not at all likely; 7: Extremely likely)

Sample
Profile
1
2 3 4 5 6 7
Not at all Extremely
Likely
Likely
Procedure
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The 32
profiles were converted to a web form using Birnbaum’s FactorWiz < http://psych.fullerton.edu/mbirnbaum/programs/factorWiz.htm
>, and the form was posted on various sites on the internet
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Participants
(P) indicating that they were gay, lesbian or bisexual (33 men, 73 women) were
directed to the web form
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P’s assumed each profile described a member of the same sex
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P’s were assigned to one of the two TP evaluation conditions:
n Dating Partner
n Marriage Partner
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P’s formed impressions of each TP as either a potential
dating or marriage partner
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P’s indicated how likely they would be to select each TP as a
partner by clicking a radio box on the 7-point Likert scales
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Experimental
Design
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2 (Target Type) x 2 (Femininity) x 2
(Masculinity) x 2 (Commitment) x 2 (Attractiveness) x 2
(Income) Mixed Model ANOVA
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Between-groups Factor: Target
Type
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Within-groups Factors:
Femininity, Masculinity, Commitment, Attractiveness & Income
Results
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Table 1.
Summary of Significant Effects
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Effect
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Fa
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Eta2
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Mlow
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Mhigh
|
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Femininity
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251.08
|
0.71
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2.48
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4.14
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Commitment
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161.06
|
0.61
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2.64
|
3.98
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Masculinity
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120.85
|
0.54
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2.80
|
3.82
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Income
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68.70
|
0.40
|
3.07
|
3.55
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Attractiveness
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52.46
|
0.34
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3.04
|
3.57
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Commitment x Income
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27.78
|
0.21
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|
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Maculinity x Femininity
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21.56
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0.17
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Commitment x Attractiveness
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11.37
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0.10
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|
|
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aAll df = 1,104 & all p <
.001
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Main effects indicated that P's were more likely to choose
TP’s scoring high on femininity, commitment, masculinity, income and physical attractiveness than TP's low on
these qualities
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Partial Eta2 values indicated that femininity, commitment
and masculinity were more important determinants of choices than were
attractiveness and income
A Masculinity x
Femininity interaction (see Figure 1) indicated that androgynous partners were
most preferred and undifferentiated partners were least preferred. Further, P's
preferred feminine-typed partners over masculine-typed partners, indicating
that high femininity was overrode high masculinity in partner choices.

A Commitment x Income
interaction (see Figure 2) indicated that high-commitment/high-income partners
were most preferred, and low-commitment/low-income partners were least
preferred. More interestingly, P's preferred high-commitment/low-income
partners over low-commitment/high-income partners. This suggests that high
commitment overrode high income in partner choices.

The Commitment x
Attractiveness interaction (See Figure 3) indicated that
high-commitment/high-attractivness partners were most preferred, and low-commitment/average-attractiveness
partners were least preferred. Once again it can be seen that commitment
overrode attractiveness, in that P's preferred high-commitment/average-looking
partners over low-commitment/good-looking partners.

Conclusions
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Attractiveness and income influenced partner choice, but
neither was as important as personality or commitment.
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Thus, these gay, lesbian and bisexual respondents placed much
greater value on intrinsic qualities of potential partners (personality
and commitment) than on extrinsic qualities (attractiveness and income).
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Contrary to stereotypes, participants preferred
high-commitment over low-commitment partners, even when the low-commitment
partners were more attractive and had higher incomes.
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Heterosexuals and homosexuals appear to be more alike than
different in the qualities emphasized in partner choices.
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The above results replicate those obtained from a
heterosexual sample (Hoover & Arkkelin, 2002)
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These results corroborate research suggesting commonalities
in homosexual and heterosexual relationships (Peplau & Spalding, 2000;
Kurdek, 2000).
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