Living in the Present
Living in the Present
Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday
For Spring Break I had the joy of a long weekend with my family in Florida, staying at my mother-in-law’s condo on the beach. My children were excited about the ocean, seashells, and beach. However, they were most excited about the pool! Every day they wanted to swim from the moment the sun first burned away the crisp night air until their stomachs demanded that supper be consumed.
On the first day, they jumped in and started the important work of throwing dive toys to the floor of the pool and rescuing them. Soon, another young girl came up from the water with a bright orange ring in her hand and said, “I found one of your toys! Can I play with you?”
For four consecutive days, my kids played with Avi, their new friend. Each morning they looked out the window to see if Avi was at the pool yet, and each night they named playing with Avi at the pool as the highlight of their day. Whenever people ask them about Florida, they almost always mention three things: seashells, the pool, and Avi.
As an adult, what I realize is that there was no hesitation on their part to make a new friend. There was no fear of welcoming this new person into the mix and sharing their toys. There was no hesitation even though they will likely never see Avi again.
I find myself wondering, why is it harder for adults (including myself) to appreciate the present moment and the gift of those who fill it? When do we start assuming that a connection with another person is only worthwhile if there is a future to that relationship? Why is it easy to dismiss the value of relationships where we are no longer connected?
When I look at Jesus Christ’s ministry I am struck that most days the people that cross his path for just a moment shaped much of his ministry. Yes, he also found a community that he walked with long term, who were present in the joys, sorrows, and overwhelming days of ministry. This type of community is so important. However, Jesus also knew that each day God might be revealed in unexpected interactions with new people. These people helped reveal his ministry in new and important ways.
In both the gospel of Mark and the gospel of Matthew, Jesus encounters a Syrophoenician/Canaanite woman shortly after the feeding of the 5,000. He is challenged that even though she doesn’t fall into “who he thinks he is supposed to be serving” she is the ministry that is in front of him. He proceeds to answer her cries and heals her daughter. Following this encounter Jesus’ GPS recalculates and sends him through the land of gentiles where he proceeds to feed the 4,000. This one unexpected, unplanned, unfit for what the future plans “should” look like encounter impacted the future so that God’s love could be more fully known.
How might we open ourselves to be present each day to those who cross our path? What might that openness and those interactions reveal to us about God’s call in our life? What might it teach us about the joy of living in the present? Recently a student shared a quote with me attributed to Dale Carnegie that was important to them: “Today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.” By living in the present, rather than always using the future as a litmus test, we often end up learning more about who God has created us to be.
The truth is that we have responsibilities and need to think and plan for the future. My hope is that in the midst of discerning what will come in the next academic year, this summer, or after graduation, we won’t miss out on the gifts of the present day and those who cross your path.
- Archives of Devotional Writings from our Pastoral Staff
- “Some Lent!”
- (Your vocation here) of people
- A Point of Privilege
- Advent = Hope
- All will be well
- Are we willing to cross the road for one another?
- Can we learn to be happy?
- Come and See
- Did Jesus really suffer?
- Doing without in a life of plenty
- Exiles with Vision
- Fear not!
- Feeling at Home
- Finding Purpose in the Journey
- Finding Words for Times Like These
- Forgiving others – and ourselves
- Getting down on Jesus’ level
- Have yourself a merry little Christmas — somehow
- Holy Week and Taking Out the Trash
- Holy Week: The aid station late in the semester
- Hopes & Dreams vs Life in the Wilderness
- How glad we’ll be if it’s so
- In a time of uncertainty, these things are certain
- In praise of plans B … C … D …
- In Praise of Skeptical Disciples
- In the midst of grief, God will bring life
- Is there such a thing as being too forgiving?
- It’s a Three Day Weekend!
- It’s In the Bag
- It’s What’s Happening
- Killing off our future selves
- Lessons in fire building
- Let us work for real wellness in our communities
- Life Is a Highway
- Living in the Present
- O Lord, you know I hate buttermilk
- Of Fear and Failure
- On Christian Unity: When we’re not one big happy church
- On the Bucket List
- Pray and Let God Worry
- Preparing for the world to be turned rightside up
- Recovering from an Epic Fail
- Reformation calls for examination
- Remembering among the forgetful
- Seeing beauty in brokenness
- Signs of Love
- Starting Small
- Still in the storm
- Taking a Break from the Relentless
- Talking ourselves into it
- Thankfulness leads to joyfulness
- The Funny Business of Forgiveness
- The Greatest of These is Love
- The Magi: Exemplars of Faith and Learning
- The Power of Small Conversations
- The Power of Taking a Sabbath
- The Spiritual Gift of Hindsight
- To be known
- We had hoped
- What is your base reality?
- What to do after you find your voice
- What to do on the day after
- What we know and what we don’t know
- When bad things happen
- When joy and sadness live together
- When you offer up your broken cup
- Wilderness Journeys
- Year-end time management: Keeping the main thing the main thing
- Your Valpo roots will help you grow into your future